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Ah, yesterday was my birthday!!! And how did it go? Well, for starter it was bit messy and all over the place. Since my elder sister is at her third home and the tradition surprise midnight celebration(not surprise actually) had to be planned by my mother and rest of my siblings by themselves.  And it went..............let say I had to  became actress for the night. :P Then my sister and brother in law( Congratulation to him for opening his own optic chamber!!!)  came over our house to celebrate my birthday. My sister asked me "what is your new resolution for his birthday"? I did not give any to her question. I just shrugged it off and continued my lunch.  For many years birthday was all about blowing candle and making wishes. but my views about birthday changed this year; I take it about reflection. On this day I ponder over what I did for the last year; what did I achieved and what aspect of my lives needed to improved. Each passing year we grow and there had to be a

I am no expert in parenting or their role.....and I am in no way judging anyone parenting styles. This blog post is purely from my observation and opinion. In psychology class, we were taught hat there are four kind of parenting styles.....but to put a styles into a category is too neat  From what I have noticed it is messy place anyone can be in their lives. hence every parenting styles is different. I have seen a lot,lot of shows that encourage a young  pregnant woman who is not ready or who does not have any financial stability to give up their children to adoption centre; and the message is as follow it is better for a child to grow up in a family who can give them better life(as in financial state)then to grow up in a place where a parent is not ready at all or who does not have financial stability. But my point is, how one could be so sure to decide that baby will grow up to be a good person if they live with a family with good financial stability?I have seen a lot lot of ch